Tuesday, May 27, 2014

In Gratitude: For Macaroni Boxes



Just a few thoughts as this Memorial Day has come to a close…


I started my day with a quick trip to Walmart.  I know; many of you are already thinking, “Walmart? On Memorial Day? Has she lost her mind?” Well, for the sake of brevity, let’s all just assume that I have.  So, anyway, I’m walking through the aisles heading toward the macaroni salad stuff and I catch a glimpse of something.  I actually walked halfway through the store before what I had seen had a chance to completely register.  I walked back to take a second look and there he was, a soldier in full battle fatigues helping a female employee stock the shelves.  I know what you cynics are thinking; someone, or better yet, Walmart must be out for a huge publicity stunt.  Well, I will tell you this, he was not stocking in the produce section or working in the deli or some other well-known aisle; he was stocking the effin’ bathroom curtain aisle.  I’m serious, the curtain aisle.  Who the eff shops for curtains on Memorial Day?  Exactly no one! I wanted to snap his picture because I was pretty sure no one was going to believe me, but I didn’t.  I didn’t want to be THAT person.  So I continued on my path to macaroni salad thinking about that soldier and wishing I had taken a few more steps down that curtain aisle to tell him thank you.  I feel bad now that I didn’t.  I’m not even sure why I didn’t…

Fast forward, if you will, to the macaroni aisle.  Here I am again, walking alone and trying to mind my own business when I see a little boy about four years old walk up to a legit Walmart employee stocking the shelf. 
“Hello, Mister.  Whatcha’ doing?” the kid asks with absolutely zero trepidation. 
“Oh Nothin’, just putting some macaroni on the shelves,” the jolly and slightly overweight employee replied (Okay, I’ll admit it, he totally reminded me of Santa).
“Can I have a box?” the little boy asked.
“Sure,” the employee said.  “Just make sure Mommy says you can have a box.”
So I watch as he runs over to his mom and asks, “Mommy, may I please have a box?” And yes, he actually said “may.” (I know; it surprised me, too).
“Yes, sweetie; you can have a box,” his mother replied.
Let me just tell you… The gasp that child let out and the look of excitement on his face mirrored exactly how you or I might react had we won the lottery.  And I’m not talking a lottery worth a couple million; I’m talking a lottery worth an “I-don’t-ever-have-t-work-another-day-in-my-life” amount of millions, because that’s exactly what that box meant to that kid in that moment, and life was good.  Then, just as quickly, my mind flashed back to the soldier stocking the aisles halfway across the store, and it clicked; how many servicemen and women have made the ultimate sacrifice so that this little boy could have the carefree-freedom to be so excited about a box of macaroni? Yeah, I totally teared up in the middle of the macaroni aisle.

So, my trip to Walmart this morning put a few things into perspective for me this Memorial Day.  I was called out by Officer Kibbe to do this Polar Ice challenge, and I was actually going to do it.  Granted, I was going to fill a kiddie pool with ice-water in my living room and belly-flop into it, but I was still going to do it.  And then it hit me, why am I going to do something I really (let’s face it) do not want to do, in lieu of something I do?  So, rather than belly-flop my way out of this challenge, I stroked a check for $100.00 to the Wounded Warrior Project.  

The memo line simply read: “In gratitude for macaroni boxes…” 
   



     
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Saturday, July 6, 2013

Homeless in St. Augustine



A quick, impromptu road-trip to St. Augustine spurred this shot of a homeless man I encountered there.  As he lay outstretched  on a bench in the alley, I found his unsolicited pose quite tranquil.  The sun was setting in the direction of his gaze, and I wondered where his thoughts had traveled to.  I did not want to disturb him, or his thoughts, or this moment because I feared it may be a while before he had another.  So, I held my camera casually at my side and surreptitiously snapped this shot as I walked by.  It has proven to be one of my very favorites I have ever taken...

Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Cancer Sucks!



With my English Composition project completed, we return, now, to your regularly scheduled programming.  Today’s topic:  CANCER SUCKS!  My dad passed away seven years ago today from the awful “C” word.  I find it strange that I can barely even bring myself to say that word out loud anymore?  Cancer, I HATE YOU, and Daddy, I miss you more than words can say.  The memory of your jumbo sized, bag of Skittles smile still warms my broken heart.  However, it is a constant battle for me not to cry because it is over, but to smile because it was.   


Dad & my sister Casey.
Summer of 2000
One of my favorite pictures EVER!

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Chapter Ten: My Opinion of the Future... PHOOEY!


Chapter Ten
My Opinion of the Future... PHOOEY!
Posted August 14, 2012

While reading every single excerpt in chapter ten, I realized one of two things were happening:  Either a) the reading material was well above my comprehension level; or b) there are just too many distractions in my life to allow my mind to calm itself long enough to digest even one single ounce of it.  If this is the direction the future is going, I really do not want to play.  Oftentimes, I would rather throw the “conveniences”  of 2012 right out the window of my car as I am traveling seventy-five miles an hour, westbound on I-4 towards home; and, by “conveniences,” I am referring to cell phones, computers, televisions, etc…  Honestly, I cannot even begin to imagine where technology and the future will be taking us twenty years from now.  I would much rather rewind to the days of Spaghetti-O lunches with my sister and lemonade stands with my kids.  However, longing for “the good ‘ole days” is not going to accomplish anything.  All we can do is cherish the memories as long as we can, (until Alzheimer’s sets in, anyway) and buckle our seatbelts for the ride into our future.  PHOOEY!

K.J. Brubaker
Keiser University
Professor Fischetti

Monday, August 13, 2012



Chapter Nine
Do NOT Leave Your Mind Alone With Yourself...
Posted August 13, 2012


The mind, in of itself, cannot be trusted.  It is imperative that you incorporate your heart, past experiences and instinct before reaching any formal decision.  The mind alone falls victim to exhaustion, overload, and at times, mental disorder.  All of these can be overcome, but can one truly clear his mind of all potential idiosyncrasies in order to do make solid critical decisions?  The mind is a vast canyon of mysteries that I admittedly do not know a lot about; but, in the end, is very black and white, almost mechanical.  The world we live in is not black and white, nor are ninety percent of the decisions we make.  Therefore, one should not simply trust his mind alone, but follow his heart and his spirit as well.  Use every bit of information, and feeling, and instinct you have within you to reach your destiny.  Holistic leaders teach the theory of one mind, one body, and one spirit.  I believe this is the key to finding your way in this life, as everything is interconnected. 


K.J. Brubaker
Keiser University
Professor Fischetti

Sunday, August 12, 2012

Chapter Eight: Hip Hop Generation




Chapter Eight
Hip-Hop Generation
Posted August 12, 2012


While it is true that Hip-Hop music has become increasingly popular throughout the years, I do not agree with author Jeff Chang in that it has become the way an entire generation sees the world.  In my opinion, that is a narrow minded view of the Hip-Hop genre as well as society as a whole.  Hip-Hop, in recent years, has taken a different direction in regards to the message it tends to send, veering away from the passion it once embodied to a more commercially driven genre.  Parental control is absolutely necessary in governing what we will allow our children to listen to.  There are as many flavors of music as there are Life Savers; and, there is a taste in Generation Y for every single one.   If you like Hip-Hop music, then listen to it.  If you do not, turning off your radio is as simple as turning the dial counterclockwise until you hear a click. It really is that easy; but, to say that mainstream Hip-Hop dictates the way an entire generation views the world, is ridiculous.  


References

iDejANCE. (2012, May 30). Usher - Lemme See. (D. Tubic, Editor, & D. Rodriguez, Producer) Retrieved August 12, 2012, from You Tube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vUiTn4ybaQE&list=FLauhx6FDyQYzCjJYKfHPQMA&feature=mh_lolz

K.J. Brubaker
Keiser University
Professor Fischetti

Friday, August 10, 2012

Chapter Seven: Environmental Awareness


Chapter Seven
Environmental Awareness
Posted August 10, 2012


7943
(The Story of a young African girl and the daily six mile trek she makes to retrieve water for her parents and younger siblings.)

The journey seemed longer today than yesterday.  
7941… 7942… 7943. Nope.  Still the same;
7943.  The exact number of steps my feet had taken me,
Every day for the past three years.
My tired back bends to fill my can to the very top,
Before placing in steadily upon my head.
In all my years I have gotten very good at this,
And a sense of pride revealed itself within the upturned corners of my mouth.
I turned as sudden and graceful as a ballerina,
Then, the return trip begins;  
1, 2, 3 4…


Halfway home, night fell upon the withered path my shoeless feet had left.
Scared and alone with nothing to keep me company but,
The African sky sprinkled with stars.
The glowing eyes and growling stomachs of the unknown longed for me.
Once in the impending distance, they now appeared hauntingly closer.     
3497… 3498…3499! 3499!  3499!  I could not move. 
I found myself frozen as they surrounded me.
Then, as I fell to the ground, the water meant for my family was lost,
Watering the greedy dirt instead.
My name was Afua as I was born on a Friday.
I died on a Friday, too.   
I was eleven. 


K.J. Brubaker
Keiser University
Professor Fischetti